Today I narrowly avoided a melt down. Not just my meltdown, but MOTH’s meltdown at me as well. All day I had pushed and pushed. He tried to lighten the moments with his usual purile sense of humour, but I refused to be won over. When he did finally ask me what was wrong, I snapped a stare so hard and fast, the glass in a nearby window cracked. “So?’ You ask..”usual day at my place.” And usually I would agree, but today proved to be the exeption.
Because today, after my attempting a fairly accurate version of Attilla the Hun…my computer crashed! Worse than that, I had killed it! Apparently I had given it a cold or the flu or some hideous disease, and now MOTH (who by now hates me ) was placed in the enviable position of “rubbing my bitchy little nose in it!”
See, he’s the fix it guy. That’s why I married him. Saves on car mechanic bills, antenna repair men, etc….Sadly, he’s not a gracious Mr Fix-it.
So..what did I do? Well, I don’t particularly like the taste of humble pie, so…..I hid. And like most blustery storms, it all blew over.
I am somewhat humbler now. And a bit wiser. And a bit smug! “How grown up was I avoiding a big fight?!” Yay me!
However I post this warning! This could have easily have been you instead of me!

